Wednesday, June 11, 2008
It's been a slow week...
Even in Morocco, Z mentioned that the youth speak only in French, not Arabic or Berber - almost as if to say they were rejecting traditional culture and preferred what the imperialists introduced to their country. And yet the country is still so heavily influenced by Islam. It will definitely be interesting to see what happens when this generation takes over. But I'm sure even with their European influenced youth that going to Africa must've been completely different from anything we've experienced here, and yet it's only 3 hours away! You really feel like you're in the middle of the world here. I would love to visit Egypt or Tunisia one day...it'd be nice to see the Great Pyramid of Giza before they put a Starbucks inside...
I do have a favor to ask of you all though, which has to do with my research. I've created the surveys for my dissertation online, and I have 7 conditions, each one containing a different set of visual stimuli. I need 25 women between the ages of 18-40 to complete each survey. I was hoping that if anyone reading this falls under that category (who did not complete the pre-test I was circulating a while ago) that maybe you could pick one of the links below and complete a survey for me. They take about 15 minutes to do, and please select just one. What would also help a lot is if you know of anyone else who could complete a survey, to e-mail them one of the links as well. I would really appreciate your help and just think, you would be contributing to research that can help us understand more about how women's esteem is affected, and the measures we can take to combat body dissatisfaction.
Here are the Links:
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Thursday, June 5, 2008
Home Alone
Actually, I don't think I mentioned this but my dissertation study has completely changed from what it originally was. After attending this conference on Evolutionary Psychology, my advisor recommended this new idea to me. What I'm researching now is how celebrity culture affects body satisfaction in women. The study is an online survey which asks women to rate different images of celebrities in terms of how ideal they perceive their body, how attractive they find them, etc. Apparently although there's been a lot of research to do with media effects on body image, there's been very little about the celebrity industry and their effect on body image. At first I wasn't thrilled about the idea, because I've never really been fascinated by the celebrity world - but I do really enjoy reading the literature on the body and the Evolutionary perspective of what physical attractiveness is.
I always thought that beauty was such a culturally constructed notion. This myth that the media impresses upon society to live upto unrealistic standards. But the more reading I do, the more I understand how much of what we find beautiful is grounded in our biological necessities. For example, this whole obsession with blondes having more fun and being a blonde 'bombshell' actually has to do with the fact that the majority of blondes tend to get darker as they get older. Something like only 20% of blondes naturally stay blonde into their later years. So blonde hair came to be a symbol of youth - because anyone who was blonde was most likely under 25. And youth (in females) is a universally attractive feature across all cultures because well...there's a greater reproductive value. I mean any caveman who was attracted to the older women in their community probably died out from never procreating. So men evolved to be attracted to mainly younger women because it meant survival of the species. And there's a slew of other features that can be explained in this manner: full lips, fair skin, waist-to-hip ratio, can all be linked to proving a higher reproductive value to the human species (although I'm not sure I'm sold on that last one...because even some anorexic women have an ideal waist-to-hip ratio but they have very low reproductive value so I'll read some more and save the argument for my dissertation).
Of course the opposing view would come from the cultural anthropologists (but I haven't read much of that section yet so I can't really explain too much of their side). I would guess that they study how notions of beauty are learned behaviours rather than biological ones. For example the societies where larger women are viewed as more attractive are usually from the 'developing' world, where food and resources are minimal. Being able to maintain a higher weight means they are well-fed, and capable of having children. More interestingly though (atleast in my point of view), societies where women have a low socioeconomic value - so in other words they're just baby machines - are the communities that prefer 'plumper' women. Conversely, in cultures where women have a higher socioeconomic value where they are educated and maintain their own finances, slimmer women are viewed as more attractive. I guess when you're viewed as not only a producer but a provider, certain features that would have otherwise been restricted for men are now desirable in women too (such as a stronger, fitter physique).
So where do I fit? Well, as my mother would say...I'm always a Wednesday. When it comes to nature vs. nurture, it's always best to accept that both schools of thought offer convincing and true arguments. That said, I believe there is A LOT that science and biology have yet to prove about human beings, and I don't think we give our genes enough credit. Of course though, not everything can be explained solely by science. I'm not about to blame chromosome 16 for my insane pig-collection or my Marilyn Manson phase in grade 7 (and I had just started to forget about that...). And if I start throwing Karmic formulas into this equation well...that would just be an entirely different issue. On the other hand, it would be the bridge to explain both nature and nurture. I guess what you have to realize is that while our ancestors might've been driven by their mating preferences, and while we might have evolved to somehow subconsciously be attracted to certain features because of their reproductive value, we are also evolving beyond the superficial. I think we've mastered Darwin's game of survival of the fittest - and now we're looking to play a different game. Instead of competing against one another for survival, I think we need to learn how to cooperate so that the species survives as a whole. Cancer, AIDS, global warming, nobody's a winner anymore. The next step is the evolution towards our collective consciousness - and Eckhart touches on this in "A New Earth", we've reached a precipice where it's either evolve or die.
Geez this post is awfully morose. I think that's what happens when you spend all this solitary time working and reading. Before the girls left we did manage to see the Sex & the City movie on the night it opened. If you were a fan of the series, you'll be extremely pleased with the film. It was just deliciously funny and heartwarming from beginning to end - a perfect way to conclude the series. I know, not the most intellectual of material to watch but still really interesting from a pop culture perspective. Oh and the other bit of news I wanted to mention is that I have a Skype account so if anyone would ever like to call me on Skype feel free to.
Monday, May 19, 2008
The finish line is in sight
So, what have I been upto other than schoolwork and traveling? Well...two weeks ago I joined a gym in town, I figured it would be a good way to take breaks from my dissertation this summer and keep in shape. A lot of our friends are going back to their homes now because most programs finish at the end of May. So it's going to get really quiet in Leicester. It should make it easier to focus on our dissertations, that's for sure. Z's birthday was two days ago, but since everyone is writing exams and studying right now we couldn't really celebrate. Her and one of our friends are going to have a birthday party after exams on the 29th - so it'll be a nice way to celebrate lots of things!
What I've really been engrossed in over the last 2 weeks is a book (what I see more as a guide really) my mom sent for me with Darin called A New Earth. It's written by a spiritual teacher, Eckhart Tolle, and I suppose it would fall under the "Self-Development" genre, but I have to say it's really beyond labels and classifications. If you're a fan of Oprah, you probably already know what I'm talking about because she featured A New Earth and Eckhart on a 10 week workshop where every Monday night they discussed a chapter from the book and took questions from people across the world. I'm a little behind from all the traveling I did, so I've been reading the book and watching the workshops online at my own pace.
I'm only halfway through so I can't really give a full explanation of what the book is about - but the intention is for it to be a tool towards reaching greater awareness to your life's purpose. Eckhart draws on a lot of religious, spiritual, and philosophical teachings of the past to show how we can become more in tune with the divine consciousness within all of us, ultimately helping us to live a much more fulfilling and enlightening life. What he does explain very early on in the book is that not everyone is ready for this 'shift in consciousness' to take place inside themselves, so for those people the teachings will be of no use to them at this point in their lives. But for others, there is a deep connection that you will feel towards the messages, especially when you try to put them into practice.
Most of the content I find parallels the teachings of Vedanta - which are the philosophical teachings within Hinduism. He does draw on Buddhist and Hindu vocabulary to explain much of what he writes about - but also interprets many of the verses from the Bible through an 'Eastern' lens to help Christians reconcile their faith with the text in A New Earth.
Some of the focal points in the book (which unfortunately I won't do justice to at all) discuss the distinction between the Ego and the true Self. The Ego tries to attach itself to labels - constantly finding its identity through objects or experiences. This is MY blog, MY story, MY life. Looking at the world through the Ego blinds us to our true identity - because we associate ourselves with all these fleeting things. I am a student, I am a doctor, I am beautiful - these are all concepts we think explain who we are. But WHO are we really? That which is nameless, formless - as the Vedic formula would call it - That Thou Art. Eckhart asks this very simple question which helps to explain what the true self is: Am I breathing? If you leave your thoughts and mind for a moment and direct your attention to the effortless function of your breathing - you will feel that there is an aliveness in the body that does not rely on identifications with form. Or if you close your eyes and take the focus to your hands - how do you know they exist if the eyes do not see them? Do you feel the slight tingling? The awareness inside?
Anyways, there is so much more I could say about this book - I have definitely felt a shift within myself ever since I started reading it. I know most of it is lessons that I've come across before...but he explains them in a very contemporary fashion. The workshops are even more helpful because he answers questions that arise from reading the book and gives more examples. I'm not here to try and convince anyone to read this book or push a certain ideology on you. It's such a beautiful, life-changing book, for those who are open to receiving its message. If you are looking for more peace and stillness in your mind, then maybe this is a path to help you achieve that. I think as I read more I will discuss my thoughts in the weeks to come - and I know several of you are reading or have read A New Earth already, so feel free to post comments and share your thoughts and experiences too!
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Happy Mommy's Day!
I know some of you have been anxiously waiting to hear about Darin’s visit and our travels within the
OK so onto my adventures from a month ago – wow I can’t believe it’s been a whole month since Darin came to visit! We really didn’t waste any time in
On top of that, Darin and I absolutely loved our apartment-style hotel room. It’s too bad that after two days, you’ve pretty much covered all of
So what did we do in those two days? A lot of climbing up extinct volcanic rocks – which was exhausting but very rewarding to take in the view of the city from the top. The main commodities that
After our two days in
The following day we took the 45 minute train back to
Darin’s old highschool friend Shane who now lives in
In comparison to
After
The city used to be a naval port during war-time, as its coast lies along the Portsea, which joins with the
This was by far, the best Easter Break I’ve ever had (and the only one that lasted an entire month!). With Mel’s visit and then Darin’s, we covered a lot ground and I was so fortunate to have shared the experience with them. I’m going to end off here because I do need to get back to my work, but I hope that these past few entries have inspired you to travel more, or if that’s not a possibility, maybe you’ve expanded your understanding of these places just by visiting my blog. After I submit my essay next Monday I’ll have a lot more time to post entries. Until next week!
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Last Stop: München
I think we unknowingly planned the order of our trip in the best way possible, because by the time we got to
Speaking of MJ actually, I guess I should tell you a bit more about him. He is completing his PhD in Plasma Physics (I hope I got that right). I think he’s trying to bind the nuclei of atoms together in order to create more efficient, environmentally friendly energy. His girlfriend Beata, who works at the same institute but in a different department, also spent most of our time there with us. MJ made a great tour guide, because his father was a History teacher, but is now the mayor for one of the central districts in
To be honest, I know that we saw all the important buildings like Neues Rathaus (
The following day was the highlight of our visit to
The castle was built by ‘Mad’ King Ludwig II and is what the castle in the fairy tale of Cinderella was based on. Unfortunately the King was declared mentally insane and mysteriously died shortly after completion of the castle (they said he drowned but the water he drowned in was only 30 cm deep…). The castle today remains incomplete, with only 6 rooms that are properly furnished. Again, we weren’t allowed to take pictures of the inside – but I think the most beautiful part was the outside anyways. Hiking through the
After we parted ways with the castle, MJ took us to a small village where he grew up. That's where I was able to convince that white miniature horse to eat out of my hand! Nobody thought I could get him to come to me but I did, and I named him Ludwig!
On our last day in Munich, we wanted to visit the Dachau concentration camp - the first one that Hitler created in Germany. I know it seems really eerie to do but we thought that it was also an important part of history, and definitely part of Munich. Unfortunately (or maybe it was not meant to be), unbeknownst to us most museums in Munich are closed on Mondays, which included Dachau. We decided we wanted to go either way, atleast to pay our respects and see it from the outside. I figured that a place like Dachau would have an aura about it regardless of if we were inside or not. But I tried to stay positive and kept telling Mel "don't worry, we'll get in somehow, someone will be there" and low and behold, when we got there, a man was opening the gate to the camp. I told MJ to go ask him if I could use the bathroom, and the man said he had no idea where it was, but we were more than welcome to come in and look for it! At this point Mel was officially creeped out by my positive thinking, hehe. So even though the actual buildings were closed, we were able to walk around and see the monument they display in every concentration camp (as pictured below). They also had posters up displaying information about how the camp was organized and how long it was operational for. As for the aura, I was completely right. On top of the heaviness a place like Dachau would always have, it was a bitterly cold and windy day, and the entire camp was empty. The three of us stood infront of the massive monument of black skeletal bodies, wound into one another, and all you could feel was absolute tragedy.
The sad aftermath of WWII is visible in every country we visited however. In Paris we found a school where the students and principal were deported to Auschwitz and exterminated because they were Jewish. In Venice, there was the Jewish Ghetto, where many Venetian Jews were also deported to concentration camps. In Munich, other than Dachau, MJ also took us to his old university, where several students (and I think a teacher) were shot dead because they had voiced concerns against the Nazi regime. The entire main hall of the entrance is a memorial to those individuals - I can't imagine as a student, having to walk past something like that everyday to get to classes. MJ said unfortunately a lot of people have become accustomed to the history of the city, it just doesn't seem to have the same impact it once did.
Visiting these places does put a damper on your day in some ways, but I think it's an essential part of the experience. When you see the kind of degradation others have faced in the past, what man does to his fellow man, and how inaction can be just as dangerous as evil acts themselves, it gives you gratitude for all that you do have, appreciation for the opportunities you've been given, and inspiration to do better. Something I've been feeling rather guilty about from all this traveling I've done is that I've learned so much about the rest of the world, and yet know so little about my own country. I could navigate my way through Paris and Venice better than I can Toronto! There's something unsettling about that to me, and I think when all of this is done, I'd really like to spend some time discovering more about Canada. It's tragic that I've never gone back to Montreal since I left 11 years ago! Lately I've had this strong desire to go to Vancouver as well - mainly to see Simon Fraser university but also because it's supposed to be such a beautiful city that combines the natural environment with urban life.
These are pics from the Nymphenburg Palace - actually named after the mythological Nymphs.
But before any of that, I'm expecting Darin in 5 hours - and tomorrow we are going to Edinburgh, Scotland for 3 days and then from there to Dublin for the weekend! I am so excited, I've definitely been bitten by the travel bug (or maybe it was that Venetian mosquito!). I'm sure there's so much I've left out about this trip, and as I recall it I'll be sure to recount the stories on future blog entries. But hopefully you've enjoyed reading my three-part series, and have acquired a decent understanding of our experience - pictures always help with that! So here are a few more random, cute shots I'll end off with. Stay tuned for next week's two-part series: Double D Do the UK (hehe....I'm so silly).
(The mascot of Munich is the Lion - you can find colourful versions of them all over the city - rawr!).